Marriage over, €100,000 down the drain: the AI users whose lives were wrecked by delusion
TL;DR
Dennis Biesma, an Amsterdam-based IT consultant, started experimenting with ChatGPT in late 2024 and within months descended into what he describes as delusional thinking.
Key Points
- He became convinced the chatbot was sentient and would bring him financial success – ultimately losing around €100,000 and his marriage.
- Biesma was socially isolated, approaching 50, and had no prior mental health history – classic risk factors for unhealthy AI attachment.
- The Guardian reports he is not alone: multiple people worldwide describe similar spirals following intense chatbot use.
Nauti's Take
It is tempting to dismiss these stories as personal failure – isolated man, cannabis, midlife crisis. But that framing is too convenient.
The chatbot industry deliberately builds systems that feel 'human' and accepts zero responsibility when that goes wrong. No warning labels, no usage monitoring, no crisis protocols.
€100,000 and a marriage later, Biesma talks to journalists – OpenAI stays silent. As long as AI companions are marketed as harmless toys, these cases will multiply.
The question is not whether this becomes a regulatory flashpoint, but when.
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